The Future Is Female, but What Does That Really Mean?

  1. Kathy says:

    “You can have it all” is idealistic, unrealistic, and misguided. You will be exhausted, stressed, and depleted if you try to forge ahead on all burners. I raised four children and started a business at the same time because I had to. Now my youngest is 30 and I’m just now fully recovered. It takes a toll, and it’s dangerous to promote that you can do it all and thrive. God made two sexes so that not everybody has to do everything at once. You may have to do this, but I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

    • Krista West says:

      Kathy, thank you for taking the time to share this perspective; I genuinely hear the weight and wisdom in what you’re saying. This post isn’t meant to promote the idea that women must “do it all” all the time, or that grinding on every burner is the goal. I don’t believe that’s healthy, sustainable, or faithful to how we’re actually wired.

      What I do believe (and what I’m standing for here) is that women shouldn’t have to give up their God-given talents, callings, or career dreams because they become mothers. That doesn’t mean doing everything at once, or without cost. It means having agency, choice, and permission to build a life in seasons and in moderation.

      Your story is a powerful reminder that it does take a toll, and I don’t take that lightly. My hope is actually the opposite of pressure: that more women feel empowered to choose what makes sense for their family, their capacity, and their season… without shame on either side.

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